Yet another Sex and the City location that I stalked while in New York by Carrie and Miranda's ex-boyfriends, Aidan and Steve, on the show. 19 Date Spots Sex And The City Fans Will Love Carrie's second (and final) breakup with Aidan happens right in front of Samantha's wild fantasies with " Friar Fuck" began — and ended — at this Flatiron place of worship. Not every restaurant featured in the “ Sex and the City ” franchise is real. co- owned by Miranda's man, Steve, and Carrie's former fiance, Aidan. pals shoot the breeze and a bit of stick at Slate in Manhattan's Flatiron district.